11 Comments to “Infertility and The Overweight Woman”

  1. Marna Gatlin

    Mar 16th, 2010

    Hi Dr. Kreiner — This was something that needed to be written and thank you for addressing these issues.

    You know when struggled through infertility, my journey began when I wasn’t over weight. I was height and weight appropriate. It wasn’t until I lost my first pregnancy and began the trek through the infertilty jungle, taking medication after medication in a vain attempt to conceive that the weight began to pile on. And pile on it did.

    Nine lost pregnancy later and many pounds later I found myself morbidly obese and no chance in hell of having a child.

    Thankfully my RE Dr. John Hesla took a chance on me. He partnered with me. He didn’t make me feel embarrassed, ashamed about my extra weight.

    He was kind, honest, and genuine. He told me what could and couldn’t happen to women who were obese. All because I said “Please tell it to me straight.”

    Thankfully I conceived my child through egg donation. Did I struggle through my pregnancy? Yes, yes I did. Do I think my struggles were directly weight related. Yes, yes I do.

    But the point is I had caring, understanding and extremely talented care providers who helped me through the entire process.

    Knowing what I do now, would I attempt a pregnancy again being obese?

    Not on your life. I had no many “A-ha” moments during my pregnancy and understood now why physicians get a little nervous when they treat obese Mom’s during pregnancy.

    With all that being said I think the patient should make the choice to seek treatment regardless of weight and thank you for supporting all of we big girls:)

    Warmly,
    Marna Gatlin
    PVED

  2. Kelly Anderson

    Jun 25th, 2010

    I am battling this same thing right now. I have PCOS and it is hard for me to lose the weight I have been trying for over a year with eating properly and I am still turned away by all Dr.’s.

    I am lost and discouraged. No one wants to help the “obese” woman with her journey to having a child. I feel this is an unfair thing.

    Are you aware of any Dr in the southern area that are willing to do IVF for an overweight woman? If so, please let me know.

  3. Gwen

    Mar 1st, 2011

    Thank you, thank you, thank you!! I thought it was just me being over sensitive that the doctor I was working with kept coming back to my weight as my infertility issue. I already have a beautiful 3 year old girl who came into this world without any of the problems everyone kept telling me I would have. This second time around things just weren’t happening and so we are talking with the professionals about it. But they seem to forget that I’ve done this before at a very similar weight and keep harping on it. I swear they were marketing bariatric surgery!

    Thank you for putting this information out there. Even if the rest of the medical field is not ready to hear it, I am glad that someone is looking at us as people and not just as patients. Thank you.

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